At Dadsnet, we’re here to support dads—and all parents—navigating the highs and lows of real-life parenting. For some families, that journey includes caring for children with additional needs—particularly those who are non-verbal.
Parenting in this space brings moments of incredible connection, but it can also be emotionally and physically exhausting. It’s completely natural for parents to seek out new approaches that promise to deepen understanding or improve communication with their child.
One such approach is the focus of a recent podcast that’s gained attention.
A Podcast Raising Big Questions
The Telepathy Tapes, hosted by US filmmaker Ky Dickens, explores the idea that some non-verbal autistic children may be able to communicate using letterboards and spelling methods—sometimes even appearing to do so through forms of telepathy.
The podcast shares stories like that of a 12-year-old girl in Mexico, who reportedly identifies images and concepts only known to her mother, using a letterboard to spell her responses. For many families, particularly those feeling isolated or unheard, stories like these can feel like a powerful beacon of hope.
The Scientific Perspective
While the emotional pull of these stories is strong, it’s important to step back and consider the wider context—especially when it comes to methods like Facilitated Communication (FC), the Rapid Prompting Method (RPM), and Spelling to Communicate (S2C). These approaches have been widely studied and are not supported by the scientific or clinical communities as effective or reliable communication methods.
As Dr Jessica Paynter, Associate Professor at Griffith University, explains:
“What’s happening is often unknowingly guided by the facilitator. It’s not done intentionally—it’s just how human movement and influence work.”
Trusted organisations such as the American Psychological Association and the UK’s National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) advise against the use of these techniques due to a lack of scientific evidence and safeguarding concerns.
Why This Matters for Families
Every parent wants the best for their child. And the desire to connect—to hear, to understand—is especially powerful when a child can’t speak for themselves. But as we explore new ideas, it’s essential to balance hope with evidence.
When time and energy are invested in unproven methods, it can divert focus from tools and therapies that are known to be helpful. For families of non-verbal autistic children, real, meaningful support often comes from:
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Speech and language therapists
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Occupational therapists
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Special educational needs professionals
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Evidence-based communication systems tailored to the individual child
For help finding these services in the UK, check out:
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National Autistic Society – for guidance, resources, and local support
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Scope – disability support and advocacy
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Afasic – supports children with speech, language, and communication needs
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I CAN – focuses on children’s communication and language development
What Parents—and Dads—Can Do
Supporting a child with complex needs can feel isolating, but you don’t have to go it alone. Whether you’re a dad, a co-parent, or simply seeking clarity, here are some trusted steps:
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Speak to qualified professionals
They can offer insights, assessments, and strategies that are both realistic and research-informed. -
Connect with other parents
At Dadsnet, we have multiple communities that are full of parents on similar journeys—offering both peer support and lived experience. -
Be open, but thoughtful
Curiosity is healthy. But it’s OK to pause and ask: “What do we really know about this method?” -
Look after yourself
Supporting your own mental health and wellbeing will make you more present and grounded—for your child and your family.
A Final Word
At Dadsnet, we understand that every family’s experience is different. We know the intense love that drives parents to search for answers, and the emotional weight of raising a child who communicates in ways the world doesn’t always understand.
That’s why we advocate for approaches that are kind, careful, and evidence-informed.
If you’re raising a non-verbal child and looking for connection, you’re not alone. Your effort matters. And with the right support, progress—whatever it looks like—is always possible.
