(Yes, it is possible. Honest.)
Let’s face it, going on holiday with young kids isn’t always the picture-perfect escape you see on Instagram. There’s the last-minute packing stress, the airport snack negotiations, the missed naps, and the inevitable argument over who gets the window seat on the plane (even when there isn’t one).
But for all the chaos, family holidays are also full of the good stuff: shared adventures, silly moments, firsts you’ll never forget – and if you play your cards right, the odd hour of actual relaxation.
So, if you’re heading off this summer and want to make the most of it (and maybe even enjoy it), here are a few things worth keeping in mind…
Don’t try to do it all
You don’t need to cram every day with back-to-back activities. Honestly, one good thing a day is more than enough; whether it’s the beach, a boat trip, or just half an hour in the splash pool. The rest of the time? Let them nap, snack, play with rocks. It’s all part of the adventure.
Pick the right kind of place
Where you stay can make or break the trip. Look for places that genuinely cater to families; think kids’ pools, play areas, buffet food they’ll actually eat, and maybe even a kids’ club if you fancy a bit of quiet time. TUI has loads of family-focused options that take a lot of the guesswork out of it.
Bring a bit of home with you
A favourite cuddly toy, a bedtime storybook, their usual snacks – these little things can really help kids settle into a new place. They don’t take up much room and they can save you from a full-blown meltdown over the wrong brand of cereal.
Make the journey part of the fun
Long flights or car rides can be a bit of a mission, but with the right prep, they don’t have to be awful. Pack a small bag of surprise toys or games, let them watch more TV than usual, and throw in a few snacks they don’t usually get. Bribery? Maybe. Effective? Absolutely.
Let them feel involved
Even small choices – like picking their pool inflatables or choosing where to sit at dinner – can make a big difference. Giving them a bit of control helps keep everyone happy (and gives them stories to tell when they’re back at school).
Lower the bar and embrace the chaos
There will be tantrums. Someone will probably cry in a restaurant. You might forget the swim nappies. That’s just part of the deal. But there’ll also be belly laughs, sandy toes, and little moments you’ll never forget. Try not to sweat the small stuff.
Take the pressure off
You don’t need the perfect photo or the perfect itinerary. You just need to be there, together. Some of the best memories come from the unexpected – the jellyfish that caused mass hysteria, or the toddler who insisted on wearing goggles to breakfast.
And finally… grab a moment for yourself
If they nap – you rest. If there’s a kids’ club – use it. If your partner offers to take them for an hour – run. Even just five quiet minutes with a coffee can do wonders.
Family holidays might not be the most relaxing thing in the world… but they’re pretty special. These are the stories that come up year after year, the memories your kids will carry with them forever. So even if there’s sand in your suitcase and chips for dinner (again), you’re doing something right.
Want to make this summer one to remember?
Check out TUI today and grab one of their Deal Drop summer holidays for July and August – perfect for families who want sun, fun, and way less stress.
